You are here for a reason.

You’re so ready to get over your ex.
You’re sick of playing out the same unhealthy patterns.
You need to build some effing boundaries.

I’m here to help.

You’re ready to be a priority and not just an option. To re-find yourself and your confidence.

My purpose as a coach is to help you do just that.

Co-Host of The Ex-Philes: Breakups, Broken Hearts and Moving On

55. Dating After Divorce with Jade The Ex-Philes: Break-ups, Broken Hearts and Moving On

❤️ Dating again after a divorce can come with its own set of mindset challenges and a lot of questions about how to put your best foot forward. This is especially true if it has been a long time since you have been “out there.” Look no further. In this edition of our guest interview series, we are joined by dating coach and matchmaker Jade Bianca of Dating After Divorce to talk about how to OPTIMIZE dating apps to attract exactly what you are looking for at this stage of your journey. Jade is passionate about seeing people thrive and date confidently after divorce. She brought some great information to the chat. We covered: ✔️The number ONE thing that men do that hurts their chances of making connections online ✔️Overcoming negative mindsets around dating for the first time in a while ✔️How to use your knowledge of your “type” to attract a great partner ✔️Dating “rules” that keep some women stuck Make sure to tune in if you are ready to up your game and LOVE dating, no matter how rusty you feel. ❌SPECIAL OFFER FOR EX-PHILES listeners! Want to speak with Jade about her matchmaking or coaching support? Find her at http://www.datingafterdivorce.com. Use code #exphiles for 10% off any service. Join her matchmaking database for free to be potentially matched with a client at no cost HERE.  Other places to find Jade and get access to her wisdom: Instagram: @dating_after_div Facebook: @datingafterdiv Twitter: @after_divorce Did you find this helpful? What else would you like to know about your dating journey? Head over to the podcast Instagram @exphilespodcast and follow Clair @clairlofthouse and Janice @Janiceformichella. And if you’d like to join our online community, find us on Facebook at Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On.  We want to know you and for you to know us! ____________________________________________________________________________ The Ex-Philes is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. We believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. We recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As podcast hosts, we are dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in our content. We welcome feedback around our efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.
  1. 55. Dating After Divorce with Jade
  2. 54. Buddhism in Dating and Breakups
  3. 53. Changing Unhealthy Relationship Patterns with Clair
  4. 52. Rescuer Syndrome
  5. 51. Words of support for your breakup with Janice


Working with Clair was enlightening, positive, and safe. I was a little nervous before we began… Clair quickly set the tone, however, and by the end I felt heard and comfortable.

I have spoken to a lot of psychologists before. For some reason, I was not able to speak to them as candidly as I had hoped. Something about Clair’s personality allows one to feel listened to and heard, and I think that was the catalyst for getting me to open up and allow this process to work.

I could not have picked a better person to listen, as Clair is kind, unbiased, and forgiving. I admitted and spoke about things I would not generally feel comfortable to do. It’s not always pleasant sharing your darkest thoughts – but by sharing with Clair, I was able to get another perspective. Her analysis and advice was invaluable. I now understand I was being a little hard on myself, so I appreciate her allowing me to air everything out. 


Carol B.

Clair held a safe space where we co-created meaningful goals and actions to help me get out of an unfulfilling and stuck place in my life.  I felt totally seen and validated with her deep listening, powerful questions and constant encouragement.  I was able to take the proverbial shackles off, and make lasting changes that support my heart and soul.  If you are ready to make powerful shifts in your life, Clair is the coach for you!

Katie B.

Clair is a wonderful coach: anyone would be lucky to have her as a guide! When we started, I was at a crossroads of making definite plans: I wanted to control my inability to overthink things and move through a project without time delays. Coaching was a good opportunity to vent to an objective voice and receive constructive feedback and insight.

Miss No-Boundaries,

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